Why You Should Date A Reader?

When it comes to dating, “find someone like you” is what many people say. But have you ever thought to Date a reader (I’m not saying this because I’m a reader!). This question may contradict many things, but have you ever tried to date a reader who loves reading 24×7 by holding your hands and narrating romantic stories for you. Oh! I can’t even imagine this because it sounds so romantic. To make this topic more romantic, I am here with solid explanations Why to Date a Reader?

Sad storytime! Gather up, folks! “When it comes to dating, my hands have been empty for most of my life. But at least I have a book in my hand from where I met many people through different characters. From those characters, I feel that your soulmate exists. As a reader, my soulmate is the one who knows the real meaning behind reading the books.

It would be best to date a reader because he is the most understanding person you will ever find in a room full of genuine emotions. A reader is a great listener, great at writing love letters with a strong vocabulary. If you are a little talkative, a reader is just the right person for you- listening to you would be like listening to an audiobook for them.

It was just an overview of why to find a reader as your better half, but many ways will let you have thought about why not to date a reader!!! Because we all love to live a life that is full of fantasies like Cinderella and Rapunzel.

Why You Should Date A Reader?

Not to be lying, different people have different preferences and choices when it comes to dating. Since compatibility is one of the most important aspects of dating, everyone has their type.
But if you are looking for someone right now and someone in the longer run, you should date a reader. It’s not that I have some prejudice for people who read, but several reasons make a reader the perfect person to date.

Why should you date a reader is what you ask? Here are seven reasons why you should date a reader.

7 Reasons Why You Should Date A Reader.

Being a reader makes you a hopeless romantic (also depending on the books you read). For me, romantic fiction is the first choice when I am out to buy a new book. So, there’s nothing left to say- I AM A HOPELESS ROMANTIC, AND EVERY GUY/GIRL WHO READS ROMANCE IS ROMANTIC! 

Anyway, moving on.

Being a reader, especially romantic fiction, has also spoilt me. Romantic fiction set the bars for the real world very high. So, when you date a reader, they know what high standards they have to meet.

1. For A Reader, Falling in Love is Magical.

To a reader, falling in love is one of the fascinating experiences, unlike anything else in the world. It is most likely filled with love, which they have witnessed in the stories they’ve read. It means you will become the human embodiment of all the fictional characters they have ever fallen for. 

2. A Reader Is More Sensitive To What You Feel.

A reader is always more empathetic towards others because reading literary fiction makes a person more compassionate. Such a partner will always be sensitive towards your feelings as they have lived more lives in their books than others. They can understand others better and have a better ability to know what might hurt other people’s feelings. 

3. A Reader Will NEVER Forget Your Birthday!

One of the most common reasons for two people breaking up is that either of the partners forgets the others’ birthday or anniversary!

But, when you date a reader, the chances of that happening are very low.

Readers have greater memory power. You would not have to worry about them forgetting essential days like birthdays, anniversaries, and dates. So, whether it is your monthiversary, anniversary, or birthday, be ready for a surprise!

4. You Should Date A Reader For Cute Texts- All The Time!

Readers might be into their books all the time, but this is also one of the reasons why you should date a reader!

I’ll explain.

A reader knows more about what to say in a moment. And if you’re far away, then via a text.

Readers have a massive vocabulary from reading different books, so the affectionate letters and texts they send will include words you might have never heard of.

So, instead of a simple “good morning.” Be ready for a “good morning, Sunshine! ❤”

5. Reader Can Be Your Stress Buster!

According to a study, readers are less stressed than people who don’t read.

Stress is one of the main reasons why relationships suffer, leading to misunderstandings, arguments, and isolation.

But when you date a reader, they are less stressed, so it puts a lot less strain on your relationship.

Also, when you are stressed late at night, or any time of the day, for instance, a reader has just the perfect story to tell you that will instantly cheer you up!

6. Need A Passionate Partner? Date a Reader.

Another reason why you should date a reader is that they are very passionate.

They love to read books, then read about those books, discuss them with others, hoard more and more books, and even show them off proudly.

When a reader talks about the book they love, you can see the spark in their eyes. Similarly, imagine the spark in their eyes when they talk about you.

Such is the passion of a book lover, which eventually finds its way into their relationships. Like, if I read a book, I HAVE to discuss it with someone. Similarly, if I fall in love- the world would know! According to a study, readers are less stressed than people who don’t read.

Stress is one of the main reasons why relationships suffer, leading to misunderstandings, arguments, and isolation.

But when you date a reader, they are less stressed, so it puts a lot less strain on your relationship.

Also, when you are stressed late at night, or any time of the day, for instance, a reader has just the perfect story to tell you that will instantly cheer you up!

7. Why you should date a reader? They Never Judge.

One more reason why you should date a reader is that they DO NOT judge anyone. A reader is non-judgmental and more accepting as they have come across the thoughts and opinions of different people with different ideologies.

They are also good listeners, and their minds will never wander off because of their habit of focusing on what they are doing.

So now you have someone you can talk to about anything, and they will surely listen to it without complaining.

Also, readers are not concerned about looks because they know what matters to them is what’s on the inside. They have preached the gospel of “Never judge a book by its cover” their entire lives.

Bonus Reason For Why You Should Date A Reader!

Why should you date a reader?

Here is the perfect reason why I would date one.

I will never have to worry about what to gift them because no books are too much for them. You have to know what genre of books they like and what books they already have.

And you’re done! You are ready with the best gift you can give to a reader!

Why you should date a reader? | Conclusion

Well, I think these reasons were more than enough for why you should date a reader. Well, you cannot find someone perfect, but you can find a reader, right? So why are you still waiting? Grab a romantic book and find someone!

All the best!

And if you already know someone who reads a lot, don’t wait anymore. Just take a book and ask them out for coffee or to the library for a reading date!